A growing collection of tools, ideas, and inspiration for living, dying, grieving, and remembering well.

There is no single roadmap for life's biggest transitions.

Here you'll find practical guides, thoughtful questions, creative ideas, and resources I've collected through my own learning and work — from paperwork and planning tools to books, rituals, legacy projects, and unexpected ways people are reimagining what it means to say goodbye.

Practical resources:

Tools and information for getting things in order.


Directory: Advanced directives by state

Form: Advanced directive for Dementia

Directory: Green Burial Certified (GBC) cemeteries by state

Directory: Green Burial Certified (GBC) funeral homes by state

Map: States where Medical Aid in Dying (MAID) is legal

Directory: Home funeral laws by state

Guide: Discussing end-of-life conversations with loved ones (The Conversation Project)

Here in Charleston:

Trusted people, places, guides and services in our community.

Companion animals:

Resources for loving, caring for, and saying goodbye to the animals who share our lives.

For the death curious:

Ideas, people, places, and possibilities for exploring how we live, die, grieve, and remember.